Self Assessment

Personal Communication Assessment

Instructions: Following is a list of 15 problems many individuals have as they try to communicate effectively. Read the list and rank your top five individual concerns from 1 to 5, with 1 being your top choice.

_____ I often speak before I really think.
_____ I usually speak rather than listen to others.
_____ I feel that I am shy.
_____ I let others do most of the talking.
_____ I would rather communicate in writing rather than face- to-face.
_____ People tell me that I talk too fast.
_____ I often misunderstand what people say to me.
_____ People often misinterpret what I say.
_____ When talking, I gesture more than others.
_____ I often interrupt others while they are talking.
_____ I feel uncomfortable looking into someone’s eyes when talking.
_____ When meeting others, I tend to get very nervous.
_____ I have trouble when speaking to people in authority positions.
_____ I feel that others lose interest in what I am saying.
_____ I often find myself playing games with others instead of expressing how I really feel.





Self Assessment # 2

1. What area of communication would you like to sharpen? Please be specific as possible and consider the different types of communication intrapersonal, interpersonal, group, and public speaking.


2. Can you think of a model (a person) who communicates this particular behavior well? If so, please write what that person does that you would like to emulate.

Cx Quiz: T or F

Answer True or False:

1. How you communicate has very little impact on what you communicate.
2. Communication is a natural, human process requiring little or no effort.
3. When communication is good, both people will understand each other totally.
4. Dictionaries give us meaning for most of our words.
5. We learn who we are from others.
6. People who talk to themselves need psychiatric help.
7. Your past experiences and future expectations do not greatly influence your present communication.
8. Communication basically involves getting our ideas across to others.
9. Listening and hearing are the same thing.
10. We can’t not communicate.
11. Most of us perceive the world accurately.
12. Once we communicate a message, we have no control over what will be done with it.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

I work for you...What would you like to learn?


What topics would you like to learn within the context of intrapersonal communication and/or interpersonal communication topics? Some of the broad strokes we will explore: self, perception; verbal and nonverbal communication (personal energy); emotions (gift of fear, emotional intelligence); listening to self/other (empathic listening, nexting, and other skills); climate, conflict, and intimate relationships...

OK... your turn. Any personal requests?

14 comments:

Yarrow jones said...

conflict control with close-interpersonal relationships, such as roommate, co-workers, and so forth.

Vanessa Unger said...

How to communicate personal feelings to others without being afraid, ways to ask for what you want even if it's a risk, How to become a better public speaker, and how to read people's emotions and feelings.

Candice said...

I would like to explore how to effectively communicate with authority figures such as bosses, landlords, and even perhaps my parents. I would like to be able to relay my ideas with confidence and be able to stand firmly by them even when being challenged without sounding aggressive, defensive, and negatively argumentative.

JessLove said...

I want to work on letting people know how I really feel, instead of telling them what they want to hear so i don't hurt their feeling.

Crystal A said...

I would really like to work on my eye contact during communication. I want to be able to use eye contact during class presentations and on, one on one conversations with authority figures.

STEVEF said...

I'd like to learn how to stop second guessing myself every single time I make a decision. I would also like to work on the having the confidence to know that decision, whatever it my be is the right one.

dbrandt said...

Just on how to become a better leader. And maybe some help with public speaking.

Julie Ringe said...

Why we do what we do and why we act differently in certain situations? Why we think the way we do?

Natalie Strunk said...

Natalie Strunk

I would like to learn more about fear, and what causes our specific fears. Also, I think that it would be interesting to learn more about intimate relationships. We all have been, are in, or one day will be in an intimate relationship. I believe that this topic would reach many students in our class.

Kaila said...

How to communicate my thoughts and feelings to people without holing back in fear of a conflict arising. A few people suggested how to communicate with authority figures, which I think would always be very useful.

David said...

How about the racial conflict's that exist, maybe some kind of multi-cultural race conflic relationship communication skills.

Nazmie said...

I would like to learn about all of the suggestions. Especially how to express my self to others. I would also like to learn more about how to have intimate relationships with others and open up to people.

colter said...

I am interested in learning why I cannot let go of uncomfortable feelings and anger. Change is the most important aspect of my life and one huge reason why I am seeking out education. I am hoping that through this path of life I can open mind and accept, create, and forgive.
Thanks Skye

Unknown said...

breathing techniques. I already learned to manage stress by sleeping properly ( no drugs!!! just a gadget i got from http://www.pzizz.com ) but i also wanna know about breathing techniques

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2008 Communication Award Recipients